Dating a single mom problems
Social workers know that children in these situations are more likely to be abused by their mother’s lovers, so they’ll be more likely to believe you are a culprit.Even if you are ultimately cleared of false accusations, the mere accusation can ruin your life.
The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
Conversely, here are the downsides of dating a single mother, in no particular order:1) The kid(s) will always come first for her, and that’s the way it should be.
A look at the world from a sometimes sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek, decidedly American male perspective.